Etty Hillesum - Corinthians 13: 1-13 Les écrits d'Etty Hillesum. Journaux et lettres 1941-1943 (The writings of Etty Hillesum. Diaries and letters 1941-1943. Complete edition). Paris: Seuil, 2008, 1081 p. 1 1 If I speak in the tongues of mortals and of angels, but do not have love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give away all my possessions, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I gain nothing. 4 Love is patient; love is kind; love is not envious or boastful or arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; 6 it does not rejoice in wrongdoing, but rejoices in the truth. 7 It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end. 9 For we know only in part, and we prophesy only in part; 10 but when the complete comes, the partial will come to an end. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; when I became an adult, I put an end to childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror, dimly, but then we will see face to face. Now I know only in part; then I will know fully, even as I have been fully known. 13 And now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; and the greatest of these is love.
Friday morning [November 28, 1941], quarter to nine. p. 234 February 20, 1942. Friday morning, 10 o'clock. A human being has much to do to educate himself. Yes, and of what use are all things to me, if I do not have love? "We'd like to make a story out of it," Wiep said last night, when I told him about Mischa dragging his old parents with him across the frozen country to attend his private concerts. He simply refuses to thwart them if they don't come. Very touching. They used to run to mental institutions and doctors, now they run to concerts. I haven't yet become sufficiently aware of the great happiness that this state of affairs carries with it, nor of all the reasons for gratitude that one has towards one's family. And if one is not yet fully aware of it, it is because of the remains of uneasy feelings that persist in the face of family complexities. Always this fear of being suddenly confronted with puzzling surprises that disturb your calm. This is where I still have the most to clear up with myself. p. 355 February 27 [1942]. Friday morning, 10 o'clock. Yes.- "When I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, if I have not love, I am a sounding brass, or a clanging cymbal. And when I have the gift of prophecy, the science of all mysteries and all knowledge, when I even have all the faith to move mountains, if I do not have love, I am nothing. Love is patient, it is full of goodness; love is not envious; love does not boast, it is not puffed up with pride, it does not do anything dishonest, it does not seek its own interest, it is not irritated, it does not suspect evil." As I read these words, I felt, well, yes, what did I feel? I can't express it well yet. They acted on me like a cedar stick, which touched the hard ground of my heart and made hidden springs bubble up. Suddenly I fell on my knees next to the little white table and the liberated love began to flow in me again, for a moment free from lust, jealousy, malice, etc. But I think I was quite hysterical yesterday afternoon. The next thing I knew I was sitting by the fire, crying, and sad like I hadn't been in a very long time. With an immense desire and a kind of rage of a scorned woman. At the same time I was admonishing myself: Do you realize how childish it is to feel cheated like you do now? And shortly afterwards, when Han entered the room, I said to him: "Little Father, it is high time you came back downstairs to sleep, I feel myself becoming completely melancholic and nymphomaniacal, and I tend, once again, to reject all things of the mind as old things to be thrown away." And Han, very wisely: "No, you shouldn't, that would be breaking the balance again, let the mind be what it is and keep all its value, but restore the balance first." p. 364-365 [Sunday,] September 27 [1942] My pianist brother, who at the age of 21 was in a psychiatric hospital, after how many years of war, wrote this: "Henny, I too believe, I even know, that after this life there is another. I even believe that some people are able to see and feel the presence of the other life in this life itself. It is a world where the eternal whispers of mysticism have become a living reality, and where everyday objects and words, in their banality, have been given a higher meaning. It is quite possible that after the war men will be more open to this reality and will collectively persuade themselves of the existence of a higher order of the world." - And even if I gave all my possessions for the maintenance of the poor... if I don't have love, it would be of no use to me. You are lucky to be free of pain, but I am able to face a little cold and a little barbed wire, and I extend your life. What in you was immortal, I extend it in my life. p. 738-739 Letter to the two sisters from The Hague. Amsterdam, late December 1942. (excerpt) But the revolt, which waits to be born the moment when the misfortune reaches you personally, has nothing authentic and will never bear fruit. And the absence of hatred does not necessarily imply the absence of a basic moral indignation. I know that those who hate have good reasons for this. But why should we always choose the easiest, most hackneyed path? At the camp, I felt with all my being that the smallest atom of hate added to this world makes it even more inhospitable. And I think, with a childish but persistent naivety perhaps, that if this land ever becomes habitable again, it will only be through that love of which the Jew Paul once spoke to the people of Corinth in the thirteenth chapter of his first letter. p. 828-829 |